PSYCHOLOGICAL THERAPY FOR MARRIED COUPLES- BY CLEMENT ERNESTERICK

"I don't find a genuine need for psychological conflict here,

Ofc the husband may ask why the hell u were with him in the first place...

But looking seriously far and wide into other possibilities, the truth eventually comes out,

The victim-ex is bound to be in hospital, or later police and later pestered to reveal a legitimate cause to the lameness,

 But fundamentally relationships should be built upon truth, and trust that the other party is humane enough to understand himself as well as her," Mwiti.

My Response to the Case: My View

What kills a soul is what one had a stake in otherwise, if she didn't, the issue wouldn't be killing her; it takes two to tango, however cold this incipit statement into the real issue appears.

The Ex having a 'critical issue' to the extent of him contacting you until you honor the invite means that:

-she, even after getting married, hadn't discarded the relationship with her former man.

-both still had love for each other and still had things going on between them behind the curtains until the black day. 

Gentlemen and ladies, once you've taken the initiative to take your partner in as your life companion, do away, totally, with former lovers. Keeping in contact with them is but only an invitation of evil within your home, your marriage. It wouldn't take long before your relationship runs into crumbles. How the devil works, sometimes are way ahead of us that the only time we come to the realizations of its effects is when it has given us a good blow leaving us writhing in psychosocial pains, traumas that eventually breaks us down progressively physically. 

Second point evident is the retaliation she did. Humanity's cloak and view of things makes us think that revenge is ever always a fair game, a principle that goes in hand with Newton's law: action and reaction forces are equal and act in opposite directions but parallel to each other. This in religious psychology and as a spiritual principle meets adversely devastating effects that are not equal and to the retaliator, has the dangers of securing a double or triple effect. This I'll illustrate with one biblical character: Samson. Samson not only killed himself but many people when his strength was revived. For Christians, religious and spiritual people, revenge is God's not man's. Because she revenged, made sure that the man is lame, the effect now is killing her soul. 

What this lady would have done is to report the matter to the relevant authorities for action to be taken and also visit a health center for check up to clean up the mess. And, confide to her husband of what transpired. Good relationships thrive in openness, trust and good communication which involves understanding of the other as the self.  

Edit:Samson didn't end in hell.

According to Catholicism, he was justified and enjoys eternal glory with God.

What's your opinion/comment?

© CLEMENT MWAKA ERNESTERICK 

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