"I WAS REJECTED BY MEN BECAUSE OF MY SIZE"- ENIOLA BADMUS

I was rējēcted by men because of my size. Many spoke ill of me, saying I was too fat, that I didn’t deserve love, that no man would ever want me. It hurt... more than words could ever describe. I would cry myself to sleep, wondering why my body was such a críme in their eyes.

But one day, I made a decision. Not for them, but for me. I wanted to feel better in my own skin. I started going to the gym, but it was tough, every step felt like climbing a mountain. The stares, the whispers, the judgment, it was overwhelming. I felt like I was fighting a battle no one else could see.

Then, I chose another path. I went for surgery. And to this day, I have never rēgrētted that moment. 

It was the beginning of a new chapter, not just in my body, but in my mind and soul.

Now? The same men who once mocked me, who once said I wasn’t “worthy,” are all over my DMs. They admire me now, they desire me now. But the truth is, I don’t live for their validation anymore. I love myself, and that’s all that truly matters.

To anyone struggling with their body, their self-worth, do what makes YOU happy. Don’t change for the world; change for yourself. Because, in the end, your happiness is the only thing that truly matters.

ENIOLA BADMUS 

- Nigeria