IT IS ZINAH NOT SUNNAH-BY SAKEENAH' WRITES

Dear YOU, yes it is SUNNAH to marry MORE THAN ONE WIFE, but it is also SUNNAH to marry ONE WIFE and TREAT her like a QUEEN.

The very moment you indulge in illicit sexual affairs, impregnate another woman other than your wife, and introduce her as your second wife, THEN THAT IS NOT SUNNAH, BUT ZINAH(ADULTERY) THAT ATTRACTS FITNAH, AND THE ANGER OF ALLAH.

I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU, BUT A WOMAN IS YOUR IDEAL WIFE ONLY AFTER BOTH PARENTS HAVE GIVEN THEIR CONSENT TO THE UNION, AND YOU ARE LEGALLY MARRIED BEFORE ANY FORM OF SEXUAL INTIMACY BETWEEN TWO OF YOU.

Yes! So, if you are a man, and you think that just because you impregnated a woman, and you automatically started tagging her as your wife, even before the real marriage, then that woman is not your wife but a MISTRESS WHO SHOULD NEVER BE COMPARED TO YOUR FIRST WIFE WHOM YOU ARE LEGALLY MARRIED TO!

Lastly, take it or leave it, the moment another woman enters your life and starts claiming to be your wife without earning that title, then not just your marital home, but your sanity can never remain the same. Nobody's saying you should not marry another wife, but DO IT LEGALLY, AND DON'T FAVOUR ONE OVER THE OTHER!

SAKEENAH' WRITES

-Nigeria