WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP LOOKS LIKE A MISTAKE

Most times when a Relationship is in trouble , people tend to see their relationship as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their relationship. At this point they regret dating their girlfriend or boyfriend, begin to think of a new partner, imagine dating their ex or fantasizing a relationship without issues.

Some even separate or breakup and later wish they had remained with their first date, as they find greater trouble in the new date. This is because the first date/relationship was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can re-date as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in relationship until you discover the mistakes you are making in your relationship and correct them. 

So breakup or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your relationship.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on. 

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room. 

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when relationship has an issue, we don't have to try to change the date/your spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some friends enjoying their relationships and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own relationship. The reason is that some people have worked on their relationship with their date by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”. 

Your relationship and date is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some friends, because of the negative things they are seeing in their relationship, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that dating that guy or that lady was a mistake.

 It is not so, your relationship or date was not a mistake, but you are the mistake.

Your habit is the mistake

Your character is the mistake

Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.

Talking about Bitterness.

 Some still dream of a relationship with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. Wake up and smell the coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake. 

So get up now and build your relationship because it is not a mistake.

Breakup or separation are never options unless it is LIFE threatening.

I Beseech Almighty GOD bless all relationship and dates.

Amen.

Thank you for your audience!!