Article ' SACREDNESS OF SEX '

There is a part in every feminine figure that is sacred to lose, the red moment of an unmerciful bed. We all know the purpose of male and female fusion, recreation of course. Civilization has turned sex to a roll in hay but God said, ' Be fertile and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it.' ( Genesis 1:28).

Dyspareunia has become a cross to carry by every woman who visits a man. Sex is a trinitarian relationship of God, self and spouse. It is not just a physical act.

The result of sex is mostly understood by the woman involved. How it catches her napping like a scaled cat. The catch 22 that swells her stomach of a short unserious intercourse, disposing neat nonsense in her fertile zone.

Back to the drawing board. Please why did sex turn to a ticket for notoriety. I sob at the patter in which women  are treated. This girl was raped and beaten by three men. God, she was just a sixteen years old girl selling bananas.

Now, I want to be plain, I am not against sex. I only want sex to cross the bar if there is no sincere love in it. It is not just a fling thing. Men, being in a relationship is not just about the congress on bed. You don't love her, you only want to ridicule her. Why have any painful intercourse with her? If you have no plans for her, please let her be. Men live and lets live. Practice what you desire. Want a virgin as a wife,leave her a virgin till the knot is tied.

Below the salt, ladies it is not about swearing like a trooper or swimming against the tide. Not about being submissive to a jacket when you can feed the frosty weather. It is about satisfying what is right for you, satisfying what is right for you is the card for success.

It is easy to be wise after the event. Oluwanishola Adeogun once said to me ' Great people discover details from short lines.' Reasoning rationally is not a rocket science. Ladies be very observant, drink little that you may drink long, traveling doesn't broaden the mind anymore.

Ajakaye Rashidat Olamidayo.
11/1/2019.